<\/strong> Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131 Tufan Erh\u00fcrman, t\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcndeminde oldu\u011funu belirterek, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ve gen\u00e7lerin hayatlar\u0131nda geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fclemez sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furan hak ihlallerine \u00f6ncelik verdi\u011fini kaydetti.<\/p>\n
\u201cEn g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fc konu\u015fan\u0131n, empatiye niyeti olmayan\u0131n, a\u011fz\u0131na geleni akl\u0131n ve y\u00fcre\u011fin s\u00fczgecinden ge\u00e7irmeden s\u00f6yleyenin h\u00e2kimiyet kurmas\u0131na sessiz kalamay\u0131z.\u201d diyen Erh\u00fcrman, Maronit \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, Karpaz\u2019daki Rum okulunda okuyan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, karma evliliklerden do\u011fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, ana-babas\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye k\u00f6kenli veya ba\u015fka uyruklu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131n da g\u00fcndeminde oldu\u011funu ifade etti.<\/p>\n
Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cHepsi g\u00fcndemimde ve hepsiyle ilgili de \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorum. Sorunlar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcls\u00fcn diye u\u011fra\u015f\u0131yorum.\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Yaz\u0131l\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131nda, bu sorunlar\u0131 kamuoyunda tart\u0131\u015fma malzemesi yapmamaya dikkat etti\u011fini belirten Erh\u00fcrman, ba\u015fka ma\u011fduriyetler ile farkl\u0131 ya\u015f gruplar\u0131n\u0131n sorunlar\u0131n\u0131n da g\u00fcndeminde oldu\u011funu ve bunlara insan haklar\u0131 perspektifiyle bakmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterdi\u011fini kaydetti.<\/p>\n
Cumhurba\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u2019na gelen dernek, kul\u00fcp, birey, anne, baba ve \u00e7ocuklarla yap\u0131lan g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmelerde bir\u00e7ok sorunun payla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaydeden Erh\u00fcrman, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
\u201cVize alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in okula kabul hakk\u0131n\u0131, bursunu kaybedenler; ana-babalar\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fum yerleri dolay\u0131s\u0131yla arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan \u00e7ok daha fazla \u00f6deme yapmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fi i\u00e7in yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00f6\u011frenim g\u00f6rme olana\u011f\u0131n\u0131 yitirenler; vize alamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in kul\u00fcb\u00fcyle veya halk danslar\u0131 ekibiyle yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131 faaliyetlere kat\u0131lamayanlar; ekiplerindeki di\u011fer arkada\u015flar\u0131 gidemeyecek diye yurt d\u0131\u015f\u0131na gitmekten vazge\u00e7enler; yar\u0131\u015fmalara kat\u0131lmakta g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fck \u00e7eken sporcular ve daha neler neler\u2026 Bu s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 ya\u015fayan kul\u00fcpler, ekipler, tak\u0131mlar, federasyonlar, ana-babalar, neneler, dedeler\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
-\u201cEmpati \u00f6\u011frenilen bir \u015fey \u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYa\u015famayan bilmez\u201d denildi\u011fini ancak empatinin \u00f6\u011frenilebilen bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu ifade eden Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cYa\u015famasan da empati yapabilirsin asl\u0131nda. Hatta konu \u00e7ocuklar olunca bu daha kolay olmal\u0131.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
Karma evliliklerden do\u011fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n insan haklar\u0131 konusunda konu\u015ftu\u011funda veya yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda zaman zaman pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duydu\u011funu belirten Erh\u00fcrman, baz\u0131 yorumlar\u0131n kendisini \u00fczd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ifade ederek, \u201cAsla \u00e7o\u011funluk olmasa da, \u00f6yle \u015feyler yaz\u0131yor ki kimileri, umar\u0131m bu \u00e7ocuklardan herhangi biri bu yaz\u0131lanlar\u0131 okumaz diye dilemekten al\u0131koyam\u0131yorum kendimi.\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
-\u201c\u00c7ocuklardan s\u00f6z ediyoruz. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, gen\u00e7lerin haklar\u0131 b\u00f6yle \u015feylere ba\u011flanabilir mi?\u201d<\/p>\n
Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cBir \u2018hak\u2019tan bahsediyoruz.\u201d diyerek, anne-babas\u0131 K\u0131br\u0131s k\u00f6kenli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n anne-babalar\u0131 aras\u0131nda da istenilen t\u00fcrde bir \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc istemeyenler, eski K\u0131br\u0131s Rum mallar\u0131n\u0131 kullananlar ve \u201cK\u0131br\u0131s Cumhuriyeti\u201d demeyenler bulundu\u011funu belirtti.<\/p>\n
\u201cOnlar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131 bu konudaki tutumlar\u0131na m\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131 ki di\u011ferlerinin haklar\u0131 da b\u00f6yle \u015feylere ba\u011flans\u0131n?\u201d diye soran Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cK\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, gen\u00e7lerin haklar\u0131 b\u00f6yle \u015feylere ba\u011flanabilir mi?\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Erh\u00fcrman a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n
\u201cEfendim ben \u2018K\u0131br\u0131s Cumhuriyeti\u2019 dahi demezken bu talebi nas\u0131l dillendirebilirim? Ne dedi\u011fimi de, ne demedi\u011fimi de, neyi neden deyip demedi\u011fimi de biliyorum ve daha \u00f6nce defalarca a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131m. Kald\u0131 ki K\u0131br\u0131sl\u0131 Rum lider \u2018KKTC\u2019 demezken bana Karpaz\u2019daki Rum okulunda okuyan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 aktard\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ona \u2018KKTC\u2019 demeyi mi \u015fart ko\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131m? Hi\u00e7 \u015fart ko\u015fmad\u0131m, ko\u015fmam da. \u00c7ocuklardan s\u00f6z ediyoruz!\u201d<\/p>\n
Birle\u015fmi\u015f Milletler Genel Sekreteri Antonio Guterres\u2019in de konuyu 7 maddelik g\u00fcven yarat\u0131c\u0131 \u00f6nlemler g\u00fcndemi aras\u0131na al\u0131rken kendisine \u00f6nce \u201cK\u0131br\u0131s Cumhuriyeti\u201d demeyi \u015fart ko\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Erh\u00fcrman, sorunlar\u0131 yar\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n
-\u201cT\u00fcm sorunlarla ilgilenmek zorunday\u0131z ve ilgileniyoruz\u201d<\/p>\n
Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cT\u00fcm sorunlarla ilgilenmek zorunday\u0131z ve ilgileniyoruz. Ama \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ve gen\u00e7lerin her g\u00fcn ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 ve hayatlar\u0131nda geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fclemez sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furan hak ihlallerine, evet \u00f6ncelik veriyorum.\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u0130hlalin kalkmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 her g\u00fcn, anne veya babas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fum yeri dolay\u0131s\u0131yla bir ya da birka\u00e7 \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131nda geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fclemez sonu\u00e7lar do\u011fdu\u011funu kaydeden Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cVizesi b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7abalar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131n 1 Eyl\u00fcl g\u00fcn\u00fc gelen ve 1 Eyl\u00fcl g\u00fcn\u00fc okulunda olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in hem kay\u0131t hakk\u0131n\u0131 hem burs hakk\u0131n\u0131 kaybeden bir \u00e7ocuktan s\u00f6z ediyorum mesela. Duyabiliyor, onun, annesinin, babas\u0131n\u0131n neler hissetmi\u015f olabilece\u011fini tahayy\u00fcl edebiliyor musunuz?\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n
-\u201cY\u00fcre\u011fi da\u011flanmayan birilerinden olu\u015fan bir \u2018mahalle\u2019 varsa hi\u00e7bir zaman \u00f6yle bir mahalleye mensup olmad\u0131m, olmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d<\/p>\n
Son d\u00f6nemde \u201cmahalleler\u201d ve \u201cyank\u0131 odalar\u0131\u201d kavramlar\u0131n\u0131n tart\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 da belirten Erh\u00fcrman, anne-babas\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fum yeri nedeniyle s\u0131ra arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sahip oldu\u011fu haktan mahrum kalan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun derdinin her zaman y\u00fcre\u011fini da\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
\u015eu anda bulundu\u011fu g\u00f6rev itibar\u0131yla bunun daha da ac\u0131t\u0131c\u0131 oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyen Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cS\u00f6z etti\u011fim durumlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp de y\u00fcre\u011fi da\u011flanmayan birilerinden olu\u015fan bir \u2018mahalle\u2019 varsa buralarda, (ki sanm\u0131yorum), ben hi\u00e7bir zaman \u00f6yle bir mahalleye mensup olmad\u0131m, asla olmayaca\u011f\u0131m.\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Uzun konu\u015fmalar\u0131n dinlenmedi\u011fini ve uzun yaz\u0131lar\u0131n okunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fini de kaydeden Erh\u00fcrman, ancak bir ki\u015finin s\u00f6yledikleri ya da yazd\u0131klar\u0131 \u00fczerine konu\u015fmak veya ele\u015ftiri yapmak i\u00e7in, uzun da olsa ne s\u00f6yledi\u011finin dinlenmesi ve ne yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n okunmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n
Uzun konu\u015fmalar\u0131n dinlenmedi\u011fini ve uzun yaz\u0131lar\u0131n okunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fini belirten Erh\u00fcrman, \u201cDerdini daha az sat\u0131rla anlatmak bir marifet. Bunu da biliyorum. Ama birilerinin s\u00f6yledikleri ya da yazd\u0131klar\u0131 \u00fczerine konu\u015facak, ele\u015ftiri yapacaksam, uzun da olsa onlar\u0131n ne dediklerini dinlemem, ne yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 okumam gerekti\u011fini de biliyorum.\u201d ifadelerin kulland\u0131. <\/p>\n
-\u201cBu alan\u0131 kullanaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d<\/p>\n
Bir Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131\u2019n\u0131n sosyal medyada ne kadar payla\u015f\u0131m yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fine ili\u015fkin g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerin de\u011fi\u015febilece\u011fini ifade eden Erh\u00fcrman, kendi yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle a\u00e7\u0131klad\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u201cYan\u0131t herkese g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015fir ve herkesin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesine sayg\u0131 duyar\u0131m. Benim karar\u0131m \u015fu: Muhakemeye, analitik, ele\u015ftirel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye, kabul etmeyecek olsak da anlamak i\u00e7in \u00e7aba g\u00f6stermeye, empatiye ve daha \u00e7ok ileti\u015fim kurmaya ihtiyac\u0131m\u0131z var. En g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fc konu\u015fan\u0131n, empatiye niyeti olmayan\u0131n, a\u011fz\u0131na geleni akl\u0131n ve y\u00fcre\u011fin s\u00fczgecinden ge\u00e7irmeden s\u00f6yleyenin h\u00e2kimiyet kurmas\u0131na sessiz kalamay\u0131z.\u201d<\/p>\n
Erh\u00fcrman, f\u0131rsat ve vakit bulduk\u00e7a sosyal medyay\u0131 kullanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, \u201cBir Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131 olarak de\u011fil, yurtta\u015f olarak, kar\u0131nca karar\u0131nca s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc s\u00f6yleyece\u011fim. Bence herkes s\u00f6ylemeli ama tabii ki takdir herkesin kendine ait.\u201d dedi.<\/p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Cumhurba\u015fkan\u0131 Tufan Erh\u00fcrman, t\u00fcm \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcndeminde oldu\u011funu belirterek, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ve gen\u00e7lerin hayatlar\u0131nda geri d\u00f6nd\u00fcr\u00fclemez sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furan hak ihlallerine \u00f6ncelik verdi\u011fini kaydetti. \u201cEn g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fcl\u00fc konu\u015fan\u0131n, empatiye niyeti olmayan\u0131n, a\u011fz\u0131na geleni akl\u0131n ve y\u00fcre\u011fin s\u00fczgecinden ge\u00e7irmeden s\u00f6yleyenin h\u00e2kimiyet kurmas\u0131na sessiz kalamay\u0131z.\u201d diyen Erh\u00fcrman, Maronit \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, Karpaz\u2019daki Rum okulunda okuyan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, karma evliliklerden do\u011fan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, ana-babas\u0131 T\u00fcrkiye …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":156777,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[561,18639,613,494,49861,1288,49862,2322],"class_list":["post-156776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kibris","tag-tum","tag-calisiyorum","tag-cocuklarin","tag-erhurman","tag-gundemimde","tag-haklari","tag-hepsiyle","tag-ilgili"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156776"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=156776"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/156776\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/156777"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=156776"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=156776"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=156776"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}