Eski\u015fehir Osmangazi \u00dcniversitesi (ESOG\u00dc) T\u0131p Fak\u00fcltesi \u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Ana Bilim Dal\u0131 Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Prof. Dr. Murat Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, Y\u00fcksek\u00f6\u011fretim Kurumlar\u0131 S\u0131nav\u0131 (YKS) \u00f6ncesi \u00f6\u011frencilerin kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol edebilmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in ailelere s\u0131nav sonucundan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissettirmeleri tavsiyesinde bulundu.<\/p>\n
Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, AA muhabirine, s\u0131nav\u0131n \u00f6\u011frenciler i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu fakat bunun hayatlar\u0131ndaki tek \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n
S\u0131nav s\u00fcre\u00e7lerinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n belirli bir d\u00fczeyde kayg\u0131 ya\u015famalar\u0131n\u0131 ola\u011fan kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belirten Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, hafif d\u00fczeyde kayg\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n motivasyonunu, dikkatlerini, odaklanmalar\u0131n\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131p daha zinde ve iyi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabilece\u011fini kaydetti.<\/p>\n
Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, y\u00fcksek d\u00fczeyde kayg\u0131n\u0131n ise \u00f6\u011frencileri rahats\u0131z ederek ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkileyebilece\u011fine dikkati \u00e7ekerek, “S\u0131nava atfetti\u011fimiz anlam e\u011fer y\u00fcksekse \u00e7ocuklar ailelerin de kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131p s\u0131nav s\u00fcrecinde performanslar\u0131n\u0131n olumsuz etkilenebilece\u011fi bir kayg\u0131y\u0131 ya\u015fayabilirler. O nedenle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu kadar desteklemek ama desteklerken de s\u0131nav\u0131 hayatlar\u0131ndaki tek nokta veya tek \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f noktas\u0131 olarak g\u00f6stermemek gerekiyor.” ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ailelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fini belirten Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, bu ba\u015far\u0131 yolunda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 desteklemenin yolunun onlar\u0131 sadece s\u0131nava haz\u0131rlamak veya s\u0131navda y\u00fcksek puan almalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatt\u0131.<\/p>\n
Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, ailelerin s\u0131nav nedeniyle fark\u0131nda olmadan bazen ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 kayg\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklara aktarabildi\u011fini dile getirerek, \u015f\u00f6yle devam etti:<\/p>\n
“Zaten kendisi belli d\u00fczeyde kayg\u0131 ya\u015fayan bir \u00e7ocuk, ailenin de ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu kayg\u0131y\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman s\u0131nav s\u00fcrecinde performans\u0131 etkilenebiliyor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011fu kadar desteklemek, s\u0131navdan \u00e7ok bahsetmemek, geri say\u0131m yapmamak gerekir. S\u0131nav\u0131n sonucundan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fumuzu onlara hissettirmek, yapmam\u0131z gereken en \u00f6nemli \u015fey. \u00d6nce yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken tabii \u00e7ocu\u011fun yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fumuzu hissettirmek.”<\/p>\n
– Rutin ya\u015famda de\u011fi\u015fiklik yap\u0131lmamal\u0131<\/p>\n
“\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n de\u011ferini veya \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 olan sevgilerini ko\u015fullu bir hale getirmek \u00e7ok riskli.” diyen Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, s\u00f6zlerini \u015f\u00f6yle s\u00fcrd\u00fcrd\u00fc:<\/p>\n
“Hele de bunu s\u0131nav gibi bir duruma ba\u011flamak bizim istemedi\u011fimiz bir tablo. Bunun yan\u0131nda s\u00fcrekli s\u0131navla ilgili konu\u015fmak, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslama yapmak veya olas\u0131 s\u0131nav sonu\u00e7lar\u0131yla ilgili olumsuz senaryolar olu\u015fturup bunu \u00e7ocu\u011fa yans\u0131tmak, s\u0131nav s\u00fcrecinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015famak istemedi\u011fi tablolar. Bu hem ebeveynleriyle olan ili\u015fkilerini olumsuz etkiler hem de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n s\u0131nav s\u00fcrecinde ya\u015fayacaklar\u0131 kayg\u0131lar\u0131 biraz art\u0131r\u0131r.”<\/p>\n
Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, \u00f6\u011frencilerin ve ailelerinin s\u0131nav \u00f6ncesi yapmalar\u0131 gereken en \u00f6nemli hususun rutin ya\u015famlar\u0131nda \u00f6nemli bir de\u011fi\u015fiklik yapmamak oldu\u011funu vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n
\u00d6zellikle son birka\u00e7 g\u00fcnde beslenme, uyku al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmemesi, ya\u015famda daha \u00f6nce yap\u0131lmayan aktivitelerin \u00e7ok fazla denenmemesi gerekti\u011fini anlatan Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, “\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bunlar hem t\u0131bbi hem de stresle ili\u015fkili baz\u0131 sorunlar getirebilir. \u00c7ocuklara asl\u0131nda s\u0131nav\u0131n onlar i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu ama tek \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015f yolu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissettirmemiz gerekiyor.” dedi.<\/p>\n
Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, s\u0131nav sonras\u0131nda ailelere sonu\u00e7 ne olursa olsun \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmay\u0131, onlarla keyifli zaman ge\u00e7irmelerini tavsiye etti.<\/p>\n
(AA\/RU\/HUR)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Eski\u015fehir Osmangazi \u00dcniversitesi (ESOG\u00dc) T\u0131p Fak\u00fcltesi \u00c7ocuk ve Ergen Ruh Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Ana Bilim Dal\u0131 Ba\u015fkan\u0131 Prof. Dr. Murat Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, Y\u00fcksek\u00f6\u011fretim Kurumlar\u0131 S\u0131nav\u0131 (YKS) \u00f6ncesi \u00f6\u011frencilerin kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol edebilmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmak i\u00e7in ailelere s\u0131nav sonucundan ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissettirmeleri tavsiyesinde bulundu. Ey\u00fcbo\u011flu, AA muhabirine, s\u0131nav\u0131n \u00f6\u011frenciler i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu fakat bunun hayatlar\u0131ndaki …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":134857,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[8228,17198,45858,2198,3173,6113,3270,1777],"class_list":["post-134856","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-turkiye","tag-ailelere","tag-cocuklarinin","tag-hissettirmeleri","tag-olduklarini","tag-oncesi","tag-onerisi","tag-yaninda","tag-yks"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134856"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=134856"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/134856\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/134857"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=134856"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=134856"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kibrishost.com\/tak\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=134856"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}